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What Matters — Conversations

Conversations about what actually matters.

What Matters is a new long-form conversation series exploring relationships, psychology, personal growth and the questions that shape our lives.

The podcast

What Matters

A quiet desk in the What Matters studio
  • What makes a good life?
  • Why do we repeat the same patterns in relationships?
  • Why do we overthink?
  • What makes some people resilient?
  • How do we find meaning when life doesn't go according to plan?

What Matters is a series of long-form conversations with psychologists, researchers, authors, practitioners and people whose work gives them an unusual perspective on the questions we all face.

No shortcuts.No ten-second answers.Just thoughtful conversations about what actually matters.

Topics

The questions we're exploring.

01

Relationships

Love, attachment, intimacy, conflict and what makes relationships last.

02

The Mind

Anxiety, overthinking, emotions and the patterns that shape how we think.

03

Happiness

What science, psychology and experience can teach us about living well.

04

Performance

Confidence, motivation, resilience, discipline and human potential.

05

Life

Loss, identity, purpose, friendship, loneliness and the experiences that change us.

06

Human Behaviour

Why we believe, choose, connect, avoid, desire and behave the way we do.

Upcoming conversations

Questions worth exploring.

Every conversation starts with one question. The guest is there to help us explore it.

Love & Relationships

Coming soon

Why Isn’t Love Enough to Save a Relationship?

Attachment, conflict, communication and intimacy in long-term relationships.

With a Couples Therapist

Marriage & Separation

Coming soon

What Does Divorce Teach Us About Marriage?

Warning signs, resentment, money, children — and how separations unfold.

With a Divorce Lawyer

Anxiety & Overthinking

Coming soon

Why Can’t You Stop Overthinking?

Rumination, uncertainty, fear and learning to regulate our emotions.

With a Clinical Psychologist

Confidence & Performance

Coming soon

How Do You Build Confidence When You Don’t Believe in Yourself?

Pressure, failure, self-belief and resilience under performance.

With a Performance Psychologist

Happiness

Coming soon

What Actually Makes a Good Life?

Relationships, meaning, success, money and what fulfilment really is.

With a Happiness Researcher / Psychologist

Life & Philosophy

Coming soon

Are We Trying Too Hard at Life?

Ambition, control, effort, acceptance and the search for meaning.

With a Philosopher / Author

Attachment & Childhood

Coming soon

How Much of Who We Are Was Decided in Childhood?

Childhood patterns, emotional wounds and how we heal.

With a Attachment / Trauma Psychologist

Grief & Loss

Coming soon

How Do You Let Go of Someone You Love?

Loss, acceptance, memory and moving forward.

With a Grief Therapist / Psychologist

Loneliness & Connection

Coming soon

Why Do We Feel So Lonely When We’re More Connected Than Ever?

Friendship, belonging, social media and human connection.

With a Psychologist / Social Cognition Researcher

Habits & Change

Coming soon

Why Is It So Hard to Change?

Habits, motivation, procrastination and neuroplasticity.

With a Psychologist / Neuroscientist

The guests

People worth listening to.

What Matters brings together people who have spent years understanding the subjects the rest of us spend our lives trying to figure out.

  • Psychologists.
  • Researchers.
  • Therapists.
  • Authors.
  • Doctors.
  • Scientists.
  • Thinkers.
  • And people with extraordinary experiences.

The profession isn't the story.The question is.

The format

Long-form conversations

  • 60–90 minutes.
  • In English.
  • Professionally filmed.

Full conversations

YouTube + podcast platforms

Short conversations

Selected ideas and moments across social media

Two armchairs set for a long-form conversation

Watch & Listen

Watch & listen to What Matters.

Full conversations, selected moments — on the platforms you already use.

Available on

Watch

YouTube

Full-length conversations, filmed.

Listen

Spotify

Every episode, audio and video.

Listen

Apple Podcasts

Subscribe and listen anywhere.

Contact

Let's talk.

Guest suggestions, collaborations, media inquiries or simply something worth discussing.

Podcast, guests & enquiries

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